Thanks for attending
Shameless Sexuality 2025!

This conference was amazing and I’m so glad you were there! It was extremely meaningful to me to get to sponsor an event specifically crafted for fellow purity culture survivors, and I wanted to ensure anyone who attended got the chance to keep their story and journey moving forward. To that end, I have two gifts for you, as thanks for coming!

  • Free 30-minute introductory coaching sessions, and

  • 20% off your first session (individual or couples+)

Click here or email Lacey@IntimacyLacey.com to schedule your introductory session with me!

I also want to extend an invitation to the Post-Purity Community I’m building over on Discord.
Please hop on and say hi!

Welcome, Post Purity Friends!

Who Am I?

My name is Lacey, and I'm a Certified Sex, Relationship, and Intimacy Coach based in Los Angeles. I’m dedicated to helping people heal from Purity Culture, and unravel unhealthy narratives around our sexuality. I lived the quintessential Purity Culture Experience - raised in Evangelical Christianity, attending youth group, Bible study, and Christian school, I graduated from Biola University in 2011, and was featured in the 2015 documentary Give Me Sex Jesus - and am here to tell you that all of us can heal from it.

You can find me under @IntimacyLacey on Instagram and Threads, professionally rambling (but with swears) about purity culture, kink, nerd culture, and loving yourself.

Remind me, what’s sex coaching again?

I help my clients build healthy relationships and experience shame-free embodied pleasure. Sex, relationship, and intimacy coaching is personal coaching which focuses on functionality and personal growth in clients’ sexual or romantic lives. My focus areas with clients include communication skills and boundaries, purity culture, religious trauma, dating and relationships, sexual exploration (desires, toys, etc.) and function (performance anxiety, difficulty reaching orgasm, etc.), non-monogamy, Queer (LGBTQ+) experience.

If you want to dig into what I do, check out the the FAQ and Services pages!